Thursday, June 28, 2007

A chinese story i read from a Blog.. I am very touched by this

this story was posted on someone's blog and when i read this story.. many past thoughts on Past Relationship of my own n friends around me came to my mind... Cant help but feel sad with tears at eyes... so touched by this story...

 

那是一個非常寧靜而美麗的小城﹐有一對非常恩愛的戀人﹐他們每天都去海邊看日出﹐晚上去海邊送夕陽﹐每個見過他們的人都向他們投來羨慕的目光……

  可是有一天﹐在一場車禍中﹐女孩不幸受了重傷﹐她靜靜地躺在醫院的病床上﹐幾天幾夜都沒有醒過來。白天﹐男孩就守在床前不停地呼喚毫無知覺的戀人﹔晚上﹐他就跑到小城的教堂裡向上帝禱告﹐他已經哭乾了眼淚。


  一個月過去了﹐女孩仍然昏睡著﹐而男孩早已憔悴不堪了﹐但他仍苦苦地支撐著。終於有一天﹐上帝被這個痴情的男孩感動了。於是他決定給這個執著的男孩一個例外。上帝問他﹕“你願意用自己的生命作為交換嗎﹖”男孩毫不猶豫地回答﹕“我願意﹗”上帝說﹕“那好吧﹐我可以讓你的戀人很快醒過來﹐但你要答應化作三年的蜻蜓﹐你願意嗎﹖”男孩聽了﹐還是堅定地回答道﹕“我願意﹗”


  天亮了﹐男孩已經變成了一隻漂亮的蜻蜓﹐他告別了上帝便匆匆地飛到了醫院。女孩真的醒了﹐而且她還在跟身旁的一位醫生交談著什麼﹐可惜他聽不到。


  幾天後﹐女孩便康復出院了﹐但是她並不快樂。她四處打聽著男孩的下落﹐但沒有人知道男孩究竟去了哪裡。女孩整天不停地尋找著﹐然而早已化身成蜻蜓的男孩卻無時無刻不圍繞在她身邊﹐只是他不會呼喊﹐不會擁抱﹐他只能默默地承受著她的視而不見。夏天過去了﹐秋天的涼風吹落了樹葉﹐蜻蜓不得不離開這裡。於是他最後一次飛落在女孩的肩上。他想用自己的翅膀撫摸她的臉﹐用細小的嘴來親吻她的額頭﹐然而他弱小的身體還是不足以被她發現。


  轉眼間﹐春天來了﹐蜻蜓迫不及待地飛回來尋找自己的戀人。然而﹐她那熟悉的身影旁站著一個高大而英俊的男人﹐那一剎那﹐蜻蜓幾乎快從半空中墜落下來。人們講起車禍後女孩病得多麼的嚴重﹐描述著那名男醫生有多麼的善良﹑可愛﹐還描述著他們的愛情有多麼的理所當然﹐當然也描述了女孩已經快樂如從前。


  蜻蜓傷心極了﹐在接下來的幾天中﹐他常常會看到那個男人帶著自己的戀人在海邊看日出﹐晚上又在海邊看日落﹐而他自己除了偶爾能停落在她的肩上以外﹐什麼也做不了。
  這一年的夏天特別長﹐蜻蜓每天痛苦地低飛著﹐他已經沒有勇氣接近自己昔日的戀人。她和那男人之間的喃喃細語﹐他和她快樂的笑聲﹐都令他窒息。


  第三年的夏天﹐蜻蜓已不再常常去看望自己的戀人了。她的肩被男醫生輕擁著﹐臉被男醫生輕輕地吻著﹐根本沒有時間去留意一隻傷心的蜻蜓﹐更沒有心情去懷唸過去。


  上帝約定的三年期限很快就要到了。就在最後一天﹐蜻蜓昔日的戀人跟那個男醫生舉行了婚禮。
  蜻蜓悄悄地飛進教堂﹐落在上帝的肩膀上﹐他聽到下面的戀人對上帝發誓說﹕我願意﹗他看著那個男醫生把戒指戴到昔日戀人的手上﹐然後看著他們甜蜜地親吻著。蜻蜓流下了傷心的淚水。


  上帝嘆息著﹕“你後悔了嗎﹖”蜻蜓擦乾了眼淚﹕“沒有﹗”上帝又帶著一絲愉悅說﹕“那麼﹐明天你就可以變回你自己了。”蜻蜓搖了搖頭﹕“就讓我做一輩子蜻蜓吧……”

有些緣份是註定要失去的。愛一個人不一定要擁有﹐但擁有一個人就一定要好好去愛他。你的肩上有蜻蜓嗎﹖

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Vik & Rachel's wedding

17th June 2007

Vik n Rachel Big Day. They had a tradtional indian wedding ceremony n buffet lunch for all their frens & relatives at Orchird Country Club Ballroom. A very big ballroom too... this is my 1st time attending a traditional Indian wedding n its a great 1, very different from our chinese wedding. We are lucky that our fren renuka was beside us explaining to us each procedure.... n the buffet is nice with all the different kinds of indian food... yummy... have also taken photos n some videos, will upload soon... Congrats to Vik n Rachel... hope a new member will soon come into ur family.. rem to invite us to lovenest when the video is ready, we sat quite far that day n so not unable to see some of the procedures...

Alvin 'n' Pauline Wedding

15th June 2007

Alvin n Pauline Big Day. They held a nice dinner @ HILLTOP GARDEN RESTAURANT for their friends & relatives. A very spacious ballroom. So happy for the 2 of them. O ya Pauline look great that day. We've taken some photos that day, will upload as soon as i upload here.... keke.. Congrates to Alvin n Pauline. Hope to hear gd news from u 2 soon.. Jiayou.. keke....

 

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Pervert Call

juz now, my colleagues receives a harrsement call.. this pervert calls twice saying his 'there' is long ask if she wan to see.. the 1st call was by colleague A... so A told tat caller u wan me to call police anot.. but pervert sitll goes on talking... she hang up the call

2nd time, right after she hang up, calls again, this time round colleague B ans and she put the receiver on speaker for all of us to hear and to drag his call as we hope we can trace back the call by calling Singtel. This pervert calls and say his is long and wan show us.. then keep saying y we don dare see.. this call was dragged for i think ard 3 mins+.. irritated by this we ask our lady boss to ans and she actually scold the caller and hang up... we have not receive any call from that pervert till now... we have inform Singtel to help us trace once he call again...

Super Attitude Bride

attended a long time fren of mine n hubby wedding.. happen tat hubby fren wedding is on the same day and so i actually went to the wedding alone with our grp of frens...

super Fxxked up wedding.. food is not very fantastic n bcoz they don have much tables, they took a 'function' room, very very small space and happen to have 3 weddings at the same day.. we had a shock when we stepped out of the lift.. donoe whr's their wedding.. coz direction not clear n at the moment when u stepped out of the lift.. thr's a grp of pple n a groom thr... very very messy....

their reception sucks oso.. the helpers at the reception actually grabbed the ang pow from us and write down our names on the ang pow when i already write my name on the ang pow... (ang pow box is beside them n not on table top for guest to put themselves)

wedding album layout is nice but they edit the bride too much till very fake... bride is not those slim type but her album is those very slim type.. total diff from the real her tats standing infront of us....

funny arrangement for the dinner.. table arrangement all messy.. we have another grp of frens whom don have a table for them when they arrived.. n furthermore the no plate for the table is on the waiters n waitress service area... can see tat they are all very angry with this...

march in is funny too.. bride initially wear white at the recep table and b4 her 1st march in for her solemization, she change to her EG and march in with her little boy... had their solemizing session on a tiny tiny stage with her back facing her guests... cannot see hers n groom face at all.. coz she blocked everything.. after the solemization.. their relatives went up stage take pic and the others guests all waiting stupidly down thr.. like hungry ghosts waiting to be feed... haiz.... stupid arrangement....

2nd march in in her WG and took table by table pic with her WG... purposely wave her hand after she passed by our table... bride always don like this grp of fren of groom.. she finds us not to her lvl... she so attitude.. wonder who the no class here... a bride no matter sld still smile at all her guests rite... she simply bo chap us.... idiot... stupid.. fxxked up....

thank you speech oso another funny part.. groom and bride nvr thank each other parents but instead they thanks their own parents, relatives & frens... n she cry when she say her speech.. so fake... she sld go join star search since she like to act n pretend.. but don think she can get in lar... haha....

during photo taking.. none of her 'jie mei' help her with her long train.. they bz asking guys from our table to drink n to flirt with the guys here.. her MIL help her and she snatched it from her n give her attitude look... whr on earth will a MIL help u 1.. crazy... one of our fren accidently stepped on her gown during the photo taking.. she give him a angry look.. according to tat fren.. her look is like she wish she can kill u... siow char bo... tat gown is rented 1.. u tot u can take bk ah... siow.... 1st time i nvr take any grp foto with her n groom... but we did take a pic with the groom coz we r not very angry with him....

during the sending off guest part.. worse... she nvr thanks any of us.. she purposely ask her frens o her own mum to take pic with her... very attitude rite... haiz.. we all din enjoy ourselves at all...

Friday, June 8, 2007

Kudos to My Sis (UE)

this morning i received a sms from my sis... today is NTU result release day.. she was so worried the day before and today her sms state that she pass and she get honours... Good job Mei... u do honour to our family..

She is the 1st in our family to pass with a degree... Yeah... taking ACCA now do not let me pass with a degree and to wear the robe for graduation and so she fulfiled my dream for me.. hehe.. will ask her to lend me her robe on her graduation day and let me take photo haha... last time when i graduate from poly, i nvr get to wear tat so now i can pretend pretend.. keke...

We will be taking our 'quan jia fu' (family photo) after her graduation at Mr & Miss Wedding Club.. hopefully they can take gd pic tat are as gd as my PS for us.. will upload the photos after we take it...

To my sis:
dear yew ee.. congrats to u.. ur 4 yrs of efforts been paid off liao... going to working world is totally diff than sch days... but i noe u will be able to cope for sure 1... jia you jia you.....